
"Guys! What are the habits you picked up from your partner?"
Ha ko...kebetulan sesangat.....
mlm td baru jek aku borak2 ngn yong pasal topik tu...
tup2 kuar pagi ni kat mix fm dlm slot 'He says...She says..'
aku mcm...'wahhh...' dlm hati...
mlm td aku n yong dok nyembang pasal ada sorg kwn ktorg nih yg adapt every habit bf dia...dari zaman bf lama...samapi la bf baru...
even now, cara dia sms n talk pun dh lain skit....
looks like dia dh jadik lain...
tp xpelatu, x bg impak pape sgt pun...
as long as dia happy, we ol pun happy...
N also, as long as dia x ignore n kecikkan hati frens dia kan....=)
btw, adapt the habit n pick up the habit, samakahhh???
Actually topic ni luas jugak...
it can be good habit...can be bad habit....
but then, juz look at the mirror..
read urself..
how bout u n ur partner?
do u change to be what he want u to be?
do u juz feel its good to be like that?
whatever it is...
whatever u do, mst ada gud reason behind kan....
means, ko wat tu sume msti sbb ko nk built the 'keserasian' n happiness around u both...
ape da aku merepek..
aku je yg paham...
ppl said that if he really loves u, he will accept whoever u are...
tu cinta sejati namenye kan.
even ko ada banyak bonjolan lemak yg degil,
even ko xpandai mekap,
even ko suke makan banyak ke,
even ko ada taiklalat bosa kat atas idung ke..
pendek cite, even ade bende yg dia rase x bole nk tolerate kengkadang..
dia still akan ignore part tu, or better, dia akan advice u in a way yg x brape nmpk mcm advice..
so that u xdela rase kene kutuk..wahahaha
contoh la kan,
'yang, i tgk si sapinaz selamat dulu tu ada taik lalat mcm u kt idung dia kan?now dh xde, makin cantik dia tu...gorgeous.....tettt...fullstop.'So, ur part ialah...kene improve diri..kene always muhasabah diri...
(Tapinye part2 buang taiklalat ni against agama kan...?ha, lu pk lah senirik..)
we, org pmpuan...
nk x nk, kene present yg terbaik utk partner...
all d way, along d relationship...
dr awal bercinta...sampai dh kawen...sampai dh beranak 1,3,5...sampai dh jadi nenek...
juz make sure u always present the best of u utk ur partner...
coz, lelaki ni nyah,
taw taw aje...
nk tgk yg cantik aje...
x mcm pmpuan,
kita kalo dh syg n declare yg he is the one,
kita akan accept him walo macamanepun...
walau perut dh boroi...
walau kdg2 cara dia memalukan ke...
whatever it is kita akan adapt.
cayolah cakap den..
aku tgh drive mase dnga mix kat radio pg td..
so nye x sempat sgt dnga pandangan dr caller..
yg pasti, aku rase % pmpuan lebih ramai yg pick up habit partner dia..
drpd lelaki....
tp still ada gak lelaki yg pick up habit partner dia...cume x ramai
contoh yg serina cite td - there's kawan dia yg mmg ada bela anjing b4 dia kawin n her habit adalah bercakap dgn horlicks (name dog tu) as affection motivation..
(see?-Communicating effectively is an art that deepens every relationship-even with ur pets skalipun..hmmmm)
sambung - so nye,bile dh kawin, her husband mmg x bole n tolerate n understand ape mende ckp2 ngn anjing ni...
dia xleh nk fhm pun pasal affection motivation sume tu...
but later....he picked up that habits...n now, he talks to horlicks!
haaa..tu satu cnth je la yg aku smpt dnga...
sumtimes, we have to adapt the environment in order to live..(wah,dialog mcm dialog peguin kat kutub yg dh nk cair je...haha)
k la, tu je...
aku pening n panas bdn coz mkn mee jawa panas2 pagi2...
so nye, ckp pun agak terabur..
Have a good day everybody!:D
^Cik Mar^

ya... i think if we adapt care yg menjadikan org yg lebih bagus dan lebih baik takde salahnye
ReplyDeleteatau membawa partner kite mengadapt care kite (kalau kite rase kite bagusle..) hehe takde salahnye
tapi bak kata ko lah.. aku pun rase lagi ramai ppn yg ikut laki dr laki yg ikut pempuan
yg pentinggg jgn abaikan kengkawan yachh
:)
i beg to be differ...sy xrasa perlakuan mengikut habit partner adalah satu perlakuan yg baik, samada sang lelaki ikut habit si perempuan or sebaliknya...tiada kajian2 dr pakar2 tertentu yg mengatakan perlakuan mengikut habit pasangan membantu dlm satu perhubungan serius..lelaki dan perempuan mempunyai pandangan interpersonal relationship yg jauh berbeza.furthermore, apa keperluan mengikut habit pasangan?..adakah semata-mata mahu tunjukkan yg kita tlh terima pasangan dgn seadannya..?
ReplyDelete=p yea!
oo....ada betulnye..
ReplyDeletetq 4 ur view..
xde kajian lagi ttg tu yek?
i'll do it..hehe..=)
btw, it depends on objektif kita dlm relationship tu kan...nk main2?or nk seriosa?
or maybe...sumtimes, kita pun x perasan yg kita dh terpick up habit die..